How to Attract Love & Find the Love of Your Life
If you’ve been wanting to find your soulmate or perfect partner for a long time, you’ve likely joined dating apps, read self-help books, and maybe even worked with a psychologist or therapist.
If you’re like many of my clients, you’ve tried everything.
You’ve worked hard for years to figure this out.
And it’s so frustrating to be in the same place, year after year.
As a tarot reader and magical coach, I’ve put together 5 steps that get you thinking in new ways about why the love you want hasn’t happened yet — and how it can.
Just know that there’s not only one “soulmate” per person. That would be awful! What would be the chances of connecting, if that were true?
There are many possible partners who can be perfect for you.
Just know that there’s not only one “soulmate” per person. There are many possible partners who can be perfect for you.
How to Attract Love
Try this.
Find a time when you can sit, uninterrupted, for 30 minutes. (Yes, it will be worth it.)
Grab some paper and a pen, find a comfy chair, and take some long deep breaths. You’re about to ask your inner source, your inner wisdom to help you answer the following questions.
This is the key: You’re putting mental effort aside. You’re not trying to figure it out.
Instead, you’re going deep into your heart and soul. This is stream of consciousness writing — almost automatic writing, as if someone else were doing it for you.
There are no right or wrong answers. You just want to get it all down on the page — whatever comes out of your pen.
How to Find the Love of Your Life: 5 Questions
What do you hope that a soulmate will bring to your life? (When you think you’ve finished answering, know that there’s probably more. Take a few more slow, deep breaths and keep writing. Fill up your page.)
Start a new page, and copy down each thing that you wrote in Step 1, and leave some space under each one.
Connect again with divine spirit (or your inner being) and, under each item, write how you could fulfill this need or desire within yourself, with your friendships, family, or in some other way.
(Please don’t worry: Many women fear that becoming more complete within yourself means you’ll always be alone. The opposite is true: Being whole within yourself actually attracts the right person. You’re far less likely to rush and to settle for someone who won’t truly bring you happiness.)
Start a new page. Now write down what you fear will happen if you stop thinking about a love relationship and instead focus exclusively on your own life purpose or begin an exciting new path that doesn’t require the presence of anyone else. Write it all down, the rational thoughts as well as the irrational. Write a lot.
Take a look at what you wrote in Step 3. Often we think that if we’re not working on it, praying about it, and obsessing about it, the Universe won’t stay on the job and bring our person to us.
But here’s what actually keeps love away: Thoughts based on fear and scarcity (for example, “all the good ones are taken”) or feeling we’re somehow damaged, or that we’re competing with other women who are somehow “better.”
These are just some of the feelings and beliefs that keep the right person from being able to materialize in your life right here and right now.
I bet you’ve heard people say things like, “The minute I no longer cared about finding someone, there he was!” Guess what? It’s true. Okay, just one more step . . .
Let’s go back to Step 1, where you wrote down why you want (and feel you need) a partner.
As you take a look at that list, does any of it come from a need for someone to fill empty places in your life?
(Don’t worry if you say yes. A big part of what most people want in a romantic relationship is for someone to swoop in and make it all better in some way.)
Why is it that we often find a relationship turns out to be the opposite of what we wanted? Keep reading for some answers.
Okay, what have we learned so far?
If you’ve done the 5-part deep dive above, you now have a lot of information at your disposal. (And you probably now know some of the reasons you may not have bonded with your ideal partner yet.)
We can only attract what we have already healed within ourselves. (And this can be unwelcome news, if you feel you’ve already done tons of self searching and inner work.)
Here are just a couple of examples:
If someone has never really experienced unconditional love and acceptance in her life so far, she’ll tend to attract people who are more than ready to take advantage of her. They see that she’s ready to give everything, endlessly, in the hope of being loved in return. Wow, perfect for them! Not so perfect for you.
Or there’s the flip side: We often don’t know when we’ve made ourselves unavailable. How we’re presenting ourselves on the outside ends up being the opposite of what we feel on the inside.
When we’ve been hurt in many ways for years, we may not realize that we’re going about our daily lives wearing heavy armor and no one’s seeing the lovable you inside.
Each person has a unique love blueprint:
Each person searching for love has a unique blueprint of all the life events that made it difficult to let the right person in — often, for an entire lifetime.
That’s why there’s really no one-size-fits-all solution. That’s why reading “how to find a man” books, listening to dating experts, and following their advice to the letter just don’t work most of the time.
So I created True Love Attractor, where the magical solutions are different for each person.
It’s not cold and calculated. And it’s not treating dating as if you have to package yourself the right way and sell someone on why you’re the best choice for them. (You may have heard this kind of woman called a “pick me”.)
Instead, we bring in the infinite wisdom of the divine spirit of love.
I ask the soul of love to help each individual client to make the necessary shifts so that she can finally let the love of her life find her.
You can do this on your own, too, using the information you collected in the five steps above! Ask the soul of love within yourself to show you your love path.
If you want to work with me on this, though, keep reading, I’ll tell you a little bit about what I do with my True Love Attractor clients.
True Love Attractor
True Love Attractor is a 90-minute 1:1 virtual experience with me where I channel the divine spirit of love through the tarot to share with you:
▪ exactly what has been blocking you from effortlessly meeting your person
▪ how to erase what has been holding you back
▪ how to attract and magnetize the person who will truly be an asset and blessing in your life
▪ ways to speed up the process (if we see that it’s possible)
▪ magical spellwork (specifically for you) to spiritually connect with your person and bring them to you
What this is not:
This is not cookie-cutter self-help. You won’t get checklists and tricks to make someone fall in love with you. (Because you don’t just want “someone.”)
This is not a tough slog through a sea of horrible, anonymous dates.
This is not an exhausting dating makeover.
You will come away with True Love Attraction activities, but they’ll be based on inner work to make you radiate happiness, love, and well-being (which all will be 100% truly you) so that you’re super easy for your perfect person to find.
This is for you, if you:
▪ already know there’s a missing piece somewhere. There’s a hidden reason that you haven’t been able to connect with the right person, and you really really want to know what it is.
▪ feel really scared when you think you’ll be waiting forever, or might never meet your person.
▪ have tried absolutely everything, and are so frustrated about why none of it has worked.
▪ keep attracting the wrong people, even if they seem right at first.
This is not for you, if:
▪ you need to straighten out some mental health issues that are making several areas of life hard right now.
▪ it’s always “yes, but . . .” when friends try to give you advice about relationships and you tend to say no to every idea and solution.
▪ it’s hard for you to follow through with things you start, and you tend to be highly distracted.
▪ other people and situations in your life tend to pull you off track. There’s always some kind of “emergency” happening.
Will this work for you?
This will work for you, if you work it.
If you already feel you’ve tried everything, and if True Love Attractor sounds different to you (it is!), then why wouldn’t you give it a try?
This is a spirit-led dive into what is really going on in the romantic partnership side of your life, and how you and your perfect partner (or sometimes, several choices of perfect partners) can be magnetically drawn together at last.
What if you’re not meant to have a soulmate?
Everyone can connect with the person of your dreams. There are many such persons, perfect for you, at every stage of your life.
Yes, you are meant to be happy in love.
Everyone wants something different.
Some people to be super close to one person forever. Others want more space, and may not want marriage or a living-together situation.
Some long to have children, or want the perfect partner who fits into their world of family and friends. Others want it to be just the two of you, and no one else is important.
True Love Attractor will help to bring in a person (or persons) who will make your life even more fun, even happier, even more secure, even more exciting — whatever it is that you’re looking for — than it already is.
If you made it this far, it’s a sign that this is for you.
It’s $222 and you can read more and book your own True Love Attractor experience here.
You’ll learn exactly what to do so your love relationship fears and worries are in the past. Things can start changing in an instant!
